The Very Inspiring Blogger Award

I woke up this morning to a lovely surprise in my inbox–the charming Amanda Fanger has nominated me for a very pretty blog award. I’m always very grateful when another writer selects me for an award. Because, think about it. How long does it take you to even *think* of five other blogs off the top of your head–much less select your favorites? So, I’m grateful to have anyone at all recall my blathering with fondness.

But here’s the truth about me and awards: while I *love* the setinment, I’m pretty shabby about following through with the ‘things about me’ and the blog chain, etc. Not because I don’t want to share, but because I don’t write about me a lot on here. I don’t think anyone’s sitting on the edge of their seat dying to know my favorite kind of pasta, or what time of day I shower (on shower days, of course).


However, I love the look of this award so much that I decided to take the plunge and share–with a twist. As some of you may know, I spent a decade designing products before picking up the writer’s pen(AKA laptop). During that decade, I learned how to think creatively. The Creative Process is not something to be undertaken lightly, or taken for granted–it is every creative person’s life-force. A molten core of creativity that lies within us, ready to spew out ideas if we cultivate it.

So, as an Inspired Blogger, I am supposed to list seven things about myself. And I’m going to do just that. Here are seven things I learned as a designer about The Creative Process:

1. GENERATE ALTERNATIVES. There are *always* multiple solutions to a problem. Don’t clutch blindly to the first idea that struck you. When drafting, let the words fly. But in revision, examine each choice and all the alternatives before selecting the best path to take.


2. EVERY IDEA HAS MERIT. There are no stupid ideas. Really. In fact, some of the stupidest ideas prompt the best solutions in the end. When drafting, keep ALL of the ideas. Store them in a little pile off to the side, or in your writer’s notebook. Don’t allow analysis *during* creation. The time for culling ideas comes during revision.

3. WORK BIG TO SMALL. When creating a product, we generally narrow down the manufacturing process before we design said product. Otherwise, there are too many options to consider, and 99% of our sketches will not apply. So, when working on your story, start at the top with the big ideas, and try like hell not to fuss with the words. Don’t waste editorial energy on words you may need to throw away.



4. LISTEN TO CRITIQUE. In design we have a saying: Crit Happens. Critique is something that occurs *constantly* in a design setting. In client reviews, in the war rooms, and in quick snippets of conversation at lunch, in the hall, in the bathroom. Why do we crit so much? Because, the collaboration of minds produces the very best idea. And that is the goal: to find the right idea. Let critique help you do that.

5. YOUR IDEAS ARE NOT YOUR BABIES. If ideas were babies, and designers kept every idea they ever thought of, every designer would have millions of children. So when you get upset about cutting something, remember just how many other ideas you have. And drop the ax.

6. DON’T SKIP STEPS. The Creative Process is just that: a process. If you skip a step, your results will stink. Practice your process religiously. And never, ever skip a step. Do the work in revision, no matter how many revisions it takes. I often see the question: am I done revising? If you tap into your process, you will know when it’s time for more feedback, or if your feedback has averaged out and you are ready to submit.

(Click to enlarge for a pretty sweet war room panorama)

7. TRUST THE PROCESS. In all of the years of designing stuff from toothbrushes to emergency eye-wash stations, I never once ended up with no ideas. Because The Creative Process works. It’s completely normal to have jitters at the onset of a new project. But if you follow your dully-practiced path of creative thinking, you will find solutions. Every time. For every problem, there is at least one answer. For most, there are many. So have faith in the process.

And now, the truly impossible part of blog awards: passing the award on to others. Here, in no particular order, are three bloggers who inspire me very much.

Jessica Vealitzek shares True Stories every Monday, and I hungrily anticipate her posts every week. Jessica’s background in journalism shines through in these fascinating glimpses into other people’s lives.

Annie McMahon, AKA Dutch Hill News, who has perhaps the best-researched, most-helpful lists about anything MG ever on her website. So many lists are really a bunch of blah when you read through them. But I find something excellent in every one of Annie’s lists.

And last but not least, Andrea Hannah, who self-named blog I discovered a few weeks ago via #Pitchwars, and who cracks me up. There’s a lot of great info on her blog, but also, well, an inspiring energetic faith in writing that we all need to read about sometimes.

My Fabulous and Not-So-Fabulous Moments

Thanks to two great blogger friends, I’m going to share some more stuff about me today! Who’s excited? Yeah! Eva Rieder and Cheryl Fassett, this is all your fault. You were each kind enough to award me the Fabulous Blog Ribbon Award, and thank you so much for that. I’ll be back another day to nominate a few of you to share your fabulousity! Happy summer everyone.

Five Fab Moments in My Life:

  • The day my boyfriend knelt down in his sweaty gym clothes with no ring and asked me to marry him.
  • The first time my son wrote me a letter and left it on the kitchen counter for me to find.
  • The first time my younger son took a nap next to me (the older one could never be bothered to).
  • The day I got my first full request, which gave me the tiniest of reassurances that I might not be wasting my time with this writing thing.
  • I’m reserving the last fab moment for tomorrow . . . because I believe that tomorrows are the most wonderful thing we have to look forward to.
Five Things I Love:
  • Croissants. There can never be enough of them.
  • Sunny mornings, the kind that make me want to skip a shower and breakfast and just write.
  • Hearing the doggie charm I wear on my necklace clink as I move around the house.
  • Cooking with my husband.
  • Tucking the kids in and sitting in the quiet of a happy, sleepy house.
Five Things I Hate:
  • Discrimination. You won’t hear me preach about my own beliefs here, but I believe in equality. Period.
  • Living far from my family. I miss them.
  • Lying awake at night thinking about a plot line when I should be sleeping. Really, this is not a good thing.
  • Doubt. I detest that squirmy, hot feeling that builds in my stomach when I’m not certain of the path I should take.
  • Jersey left turns. If you don’t live in Jersey, you may not know what I mean, but a Jersey Left is pure evil. 

Eleven Questions

The lovely Annie McMahon tagged me with the Eleven Questions meme! I get to tell you some things you didn’t know about me (maybe), some things she wanted to know about me (sort of), and some things I want to know about my writing buddies (definitely). I know you’re just dying to see who I tagged, but you’ll have to read down to find out!

First up, here are eleven random tidbits about me:
  • When I broke things as a child, I lied every single time and said my sister did it.
  • I eat Nutella straight out of the jar. With my finger.
  • I have designed a breast pump, an eyewash station, and flatware for Martha Stewart.
  • In junior year of high school, I lost the race for Art Club President. To someone who wasn’t even IN Art Club. Can you tell it still stings?
  • When I’m stressed, I clean out a closet or a drawer.
  • I’ve never owned a curling iron.
  • My first major in college was Pre-Veterinary Medicine.
  • I watch chick-TV and pretend I didn’t.
  • I eat yogurt with peanut butter cheese sandwich crackers. As in, I dip them in the yogurt . . . and eat them.
  • I believe in following your heart and doing the work.
  • I could not count to eleven when I made this list.

Next, eleven answers from me:
  • How did you get your ideas for your most recent book?  My son asked me to please, please write a book for him. I let my mind run, and wrote a story he and his brother would love.
  • What makes your books different from others in your genre?  I’d like to think I have a strong voice–and every writer’s voice is their unique signature.
  • What is your biggest challenge as a writer?  Patience.
  • What other hobbies or occupations do you have besides writing?  I’m a product designer, and have also done some illustration work.
  • What’s your favorite book in the genre that you write?  Well . . . for historical fiction, I love City of Dreams.  My favorite middle grade books are always and forever anything and everything by Roald Dahl.
  • What’s your favorite quote or expression?   “Only the heart that knows the mighty grief can know the mighty rapture, sorrows come to stretch out spaces in the heart for joy” — Charles Edwin Markham
  • Are you a listener or a talker?  Talker.
  • Name one thing you couldn’t live without.  My family.
  • What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten?  Whole fried prawn heads. 
  • If you were an animal, what would it be?  A horse.
  • Name three adjectives that best describe you.  Creative, Determined, Dedicated.

I bet you never thought you’d know that much about me. I can’t wait to read more about my own writer buddies! Ilana Waters, Tonja Drecker, A.M. Shultz, Jay C. Spencer, you’re up! Your instructions: Write eleven random things about yourself. Answer the eleven questions given. Write eleven new questions. Do a happy dance. Tag someone else.

Now, eleven questions for you!
  • Have you always wanted to write?
  • How old were you when you “started writing?”
  • What was the name and subject of your first writing project?
  • What time of day do you write the most?
  • Name your favorite reading genres.
  • What do you do to relax?
  • Name a place you’ve been to that you would visit again.
  • Name a place you haven’t been to that you want to visit.
  • Salty or sweet?
  • TV or movies?
  • Finally, the most important question of all: Did you read 50 Shades of Gray?